I have NOT misunderstood one thing about what you said! You made the plain statement that there is such a thing as "gay Christians"? If you said that 25 odd years ago or more, everyone would have thought you meant "happy Christians'"! But you mean sodomite Christians? An oxymoron! The apostate C of S would be very happy with your liberal terminology! We should preach to them (homosexuals)of sin, wrath and the judgment of God in Christ to come, to repent of their ungodly lifestyles? There we go, 'hate speech' again? Can you imagine Mrs Leadsom saying such things to her colleagues in No 10? I think not! She would soon be shown the door!
Another thing. You CAN'T "make sinners want our company". They absolutely hate it! I did my level best not to believe, I fought with ALL my might against God, but praise be to Him, His grace overcame me! And I trust it did you, as well? As an unconverted man, I now hang my head in shame at the cursings, blasphemings and excrement that used to emanate from the cesspit that was then my mouth. It is the word of God, preached with the Holy Spirit that does the converting, Romans 10.17. If a man converts a soul to Christ, another can unconvert! Not so with true conversion, My sheep HEAR MY voice, John 10.27, John 3.8. etc. Romans 8.7 1 Corinthians 2.14.
However, I agree that we cannot "make" people want our company. That is not the sense of my words but I should have worded it better.
The point is that like Jesus, anyone who is full of genuine holiness which involves love and joy, will attract (not MAKE them come) sinners.
As in the words of the Bride in the Song of Songs "draw ME, WE will run after thee" and Jeremiah "Therefore I have drawn you with lovingkindness". Yes it is the Spirit of God who draws.
The ONLY, I repeat ONLY, Man (despite what the Wesleyan/Methodist/holiness/Keswick/Pentecostal movement would have you believe) that is "full of genuine holiness" or rather "without sin"; Hebrews 4.15 WAS God manifest in the flesh, that is Jesus Christ, our ONLY Lord and Saviour.
I have no pleasure in correcting you, but, NO BODY, "is like Jesus", but, I am sure you KNOW this? NO ONE comes within a zillion, zillion light years of Him! This is why I love Him with ALL my heart, soul and mind, because NO-one offers me what He does. He is INCOMPARABLE!!!!
Certainly I agree with your last sentence! Pre-destination/election in one sentence!
May God bless your studies:
Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend. Proverbs 27.17.
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